What is a sustainable lifestyle? To me, a lifestyle that is sustainable is adaptable to different cultures, different income levels, different environments, so that for better or worse, for poorer or richer, we are able to live together joyfully. The things we have and the comforts we enjoy, ought not to condition the way we live such that the family falls apart when it faces a situation of poverty or war or sickness.
Yet, the family if given a choice will always yearn to live within its comfort zone. Hence, the need for a little engineering to create situations when we move out of the comfort zone. Quite a handful of jargon in this blogpost, enjoy.
I do not play God in determining the circumstances of my family. Yet, each of us make different choices in life. We switch channels on our remote control or decide what we wish to eat for the day. Do we constantly choose convenience, comfort, speed and material enjoyment all the time? Or do we sometimes choose that which is strenuous, uncomfortable, slow and simple? By adapting to different situations, do we grow better as a person? Or should we be spoilt with convenience and comfort, till we be obese couch potatoes choosing to live for ourselves alone?
It is actually not as complicated. It is as easy as choosing to walk or
take the bus when you can conveniently flag a taxi. You may probably hear a few complaints from your wife and child in the beginning, but after a while, they see the value and fun in taking time exercising and begin to build their stamina towards a little hardship. Same goes for carrying and wearing your baby when you can use the stroller. Or delaying purchases and seeking good bargains and avoiding impulse buying all the time. There is a time for everything. Time for hardship and time to splurge and treat ourselves to some comfort. Yet, often we forget to schedule some slow time, some hardship and inconvenient time to make us better stronger people. The key is not making quick decisions for easy way out (unless you get free gifts or free help). Try out the hard way. Only when you have tried it and know your limits, you can consider other options in the decision making process. Then, aim for those limits again at another time. Surprisingly, it may find less resistance and be a breeze for the whole family then.
The bible in James 1:2-4 states, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything". It would be ideal for a family to not lack in anything and develop the necessary perseverance to sustain through time. Of course, God's grace be with us as we grow. And if we lack anything, may we remember to seek after Him for wisdom.
(Photos show Haruka at Singapore Universal Studio, a treat after bearing with daddy's whims and fancies :)
